The decision of about who is present at birth is entirely act pregnant woman. Only people she feels absolutely comfortable with should be there, to hold the secrete paced during delivery, and help with logistic afterward. The basic idea is confidence, the capacity to stay relax and focus at the same time fearless with good common sense, so they can stay present and functional through out the event. It has been noticed that attending people who have not prepared themselves may not be in the position to offer support, birth is not a social event, it is mystery in action. A birthing mother must be respected on her own instincts and protect her privacy even mean to say “no” to some of her friends or relatives. A rule of sum: the less people, the better.